Did you know that the feelings of guilt can dictate the entire personality of someone until they become the only responsible factor of his life?I never knew the power of accumulated guilt until I read some information that were discovering its secrets based on some interesting researches.
Everyone makes mistakes in his life. Someone had always disrespected one of his family members, another one had failed to help his ex in a serious problem, or had destroyed one life forever.
Our mistakes have made us feel guilty and even though we are not unaware of it, we always try to find ways to repair our mistakes by helping others who resemble those who we have caused any harm.
Accumulated guilt and profession choices
The affection of guilt can go so far as it can motivate someone to become a doctor, because he didn’t helped his mother to be healed from an illness and she died.
Someone else feels a strong desire to become a policeman, because he never managed to protect his brother from criminals when they were children.
The list goes on with many professions and people can rarely understand that behind their desires are hidden some strong feelings of accumulated guilt.
Such behaviors looks like the only way to get rid of their guilt. If they feel sorry about some people and they help them, they don’t feel guilty anymore.
The psychology of love and guilt
Researches have found that another way to get rid of the feelings of guilt is to fall in love with someone who resembles the person who made you feel guilty.
For example: If you always felt sorry about you sister, because you treated her very bad before, you will develop attraction for someone who shows you that she was treated very bad before from her close friend.
The book How to make someone fall in love with you mentioned this fact as one of the strongest strategy that the psychology of love had revealed.
Of course your mind is just trying to escape you from feelings of guilt when it makes you love someone you feel sorry for.
The feelings of guilt and influence
Guilt can affect anyone, even if he is your boss he can fall under your influence if you know how to trigger his feelings of guilt.
The social hierarchy have made some people behave in superior manner and their disrespect can sometimes be transformed into violent angriness in the first mistake that his workers do.
But such emotions had always fade away too quickly as soon as the feelings of guilt have replaced them.
Many people who know how to take advantage of others weaknesses can usually control everyone, even if their bosses.
Such influence can be unethical if it’s used for fun or for weak motives, so it is highly recommended to use such facts only when it’s really necessary, otherwise your reputation will be destroyed sooner or late.
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