There are no other articles similar or even close in content to these ones. These articles are not about intuitive tricks, but are rather some that are based on the greatest book that have been ever written in this topic. (The book: How to make someone fall in love with you).
How to begin
Everyone who is single has stored his own list with his/her desired traits he/she wants in the future partner. And they will become emotionally attached to anyone who matches their criteria, or at least the most of it.
However you will not fall for someone who you think is unreachable even though he or she matches the most of your criteria. Therefore falling in love process always begins when someone thinks there is a possibility for you to develop feelings for him in the future.
So appearing unreachable from the beginning is a big psychological barrier for someone to think about you as a potential partner. Therefore the first thing you should do to start the process of making someone fall in love with you is exactly appearing available and reachable.
Seeing someone confidently in the eyes shares interest and releases some hormones that make the person experience a state similar to love emotions. But what is more important it makes you appear reachable. In addition to this you can show indirect interest about him/her. After the person will see you are available, he will then try to know you and to observe if you match his preferred criteria.
Here we come to the most important part of making someone fall in love with you: “Meeting his criteria”. As you saw appearing reachable is very important, but unless you meet his deepest needs and criteria you won’t cause the attraction in the required level to support a relationship. Meeting his criteria is what will make him feel such a powerful attraction that will totally convince him to be in a relationship with you.
How to meet his/her criteria
Here you should start to display you positive traits one by one. When you display all your great qualities at once, you will make a great impression. But the seduction that is created from such impression will fade away too quickly before it reaches the level where it can support the relationship.
That’s why you should cause such good impressions for a long time until his attachment will grow big enough. You can do this by displaying your good qualities not at once. For example when you displayed your self confidence, wait few days before you show him that you have a good sense of humor, then wait again few days before you display you are intelligent.
Positive traits you should display are not the ones you think are more valuable to you, but they are those qualities that are more desired from the person you want to fall for you. Such positive traits are his criteria, are what he/she dreams to find in his future partner. Here is how you can identify his criteria and how to meet them:
Love and security
If someone doesn’t feel secure around you, he will not fall in love with you. Everyone wants to be close to someone he can trust and share everything without any potential danger.
That’s why people usually fall in love with people who have personalities close to theirs. Similarities between people make them feel comfortable around each other. So if one of his important values is honesty, show him you are also honest and he will feel he is similar to you without understanding why.
Don’t be direct and tell him that you have similarities, because if he/she understands you are trying to convince him to believe something than you are game over. Instead try to convince his subconscious mind.
By doing researches about him you will discover his important values, beliefs, opinions, social and cultural status etc. More things you match, more similar to you he will feel.
But the idea here is to display only the points that the person likes at himself too. So if you reveal someone is intelligent but lazy, most probably he doesn’t like his laziness, so appear intelligent, not lazy.
I have what you need
One of the biggest reasons why people fall in love is to compensate things they miss themselves.
Girls who lived financially insecure will be attracted to wealthy or ambitious men.
The boy who thinks he is ugly will be attracted to beautiful girls.
Someone who thinks he is not smart will easily fall for an intelligent person.
People aim unconsciously to compensate their weak points by staying close to people who have what they need. So the best thing you can do to make someone fall in love with you is to figure out what doesn’t that person like at himself.
After you discover he hates the fact that he is not so handsome, then try to always appear in your best form and he will feel a strong attraction as a result of his powerful desire to compensate his defect.
I wanted to write about many other concepts on this subject, but when I understood this article was going to be 10 pages long, I decided to break it into some short articles that will continue this idea. You will find it in the category Relationships Explained where I have written many other articles related to this topic.
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