Would you watch the same movie 100 times? What if it was the most beautiful film in the world? Of course not, because it’s exactly what we don’t know about something, what makes it beautiful and fascinating.
When you can’t watch a movie 2 times, why do you think someone would have it easy to be in a relationship with someone who has already given everything from himself?
Many couples lose their motivation to explore and know each other further in a few years just because they know each other very well and they don’t have anything to discover in each other further.
This is one of the main reasons why after a while couples don’t feel that attraction to be together as they felt before. Too often this has ended up with divorce. Based on these facts, I’m giving to you a few ways that can help you to strengthen your relationship and to maintain it strong forever.
Don’t give everything from the beginning
If you display all your positive qualities at once, you will make a great impression on him/her. But the created attraction from this good impression will be extinguished quickly before it gets the needed size to sustain a relationship.
Therefore, it is better to not show off from the beginning. But after you have shown something positive of yourself, wait a few days before you display something else.
Of course, the day when your partner will fully recognize you will come. And this is the time when you have to change and upgrade yourself, so you always have something new and exciting to display.
This will keep your relationship healthy and interesting and you will continue to know each other further without being bored.
Try to improve your partner
Having a long and beautiful relationship is not simply a matter of focusing only on yourself. But it is also a matter of tasting of that relationship. Because if you don’t continue to love your partner, then it would be very difficult for you to contribute even the smallest things in that relationship, and everything will end up with mutual hatred.
Attemps to improve your partner should not be a commanding with force, but instead they should be supporting and encouraging attemps. And this doesn’t mean that your partner should be how you would like at everything. There will be things you simply must accept without trying to change them. So the idea here is to try to change those things by which your partner will not be embarrassed.
Love can not be unilateral. Because unilateral feelings bring destruction more than happiness. And what kind of love would it be then? So while you try to give something in your relationship, You should also make sure you will take everything you want from it.
This blog contains many other items like this that can be found in the category Relationships Explained. However I will continue to add other fresh posts to provide you with a deep understanding of relationships. The book How to make someone fall in love with you, is also the best place where you can find every practical tip you should know on this matter. Check it out.