At certain moments of your life you felt attracted of someone. However you didn’t really fall in love at all cases. In many cases you just confused one or more of that feelings with the real love.
I am warning you that the presence of these feelings doesn’t mean that you don’t feel love, maybe these feelings are just a part of what you feel mixed with your clear feelings, but if there is no other feeling except these ones, then you are just lying yourself by thinking you have found the right person.
So which are 5 feelings you might confuse with true love? Read the explanations below to know which are they and to learn how to understand better the feelings you might have about someone.
The feelings of addiction
People get addicted to everything that is nurturing them with certain emotions in consistent basis. Even a chocolate can make you addicted to it if you eat one everyday, and if one morning it isn’t possible for you to eat one, you might feel really bad.
You can become addicted to someone’s attention even if you don’t love him and that feeling might make you think you really love him.
If you accuse him that he ignores you just because he didn’t pay you much attention one day, if you feel bad when he doesn’t call you each day or hour (depended on your frequency), most probably you are addicted to him.
Are you only addicted to him? Or you love him too beside the fact that you feel addiction? You should find this answer on your own, I don’t want to help you about this.
The feelings of happiness
You are always making associations between feelings you experience with people and objects that surround you.
Many people think that cigarettes make them feel happy even though they hate smoking only because this habit had accompanied them at the happiest moments of their life, and because first 7 seconds of smoking ignite the dopamine which is the responsible hormone for the feelings of pleasure.
The same way you might confuse the feelings of happiness you experience due to a certain situation with feelings you have about someone. People always link the emotions they feel to their accompany even though their accompany isn’t the real cause of happiness they feel.
That’s why you might feel attraction about someone just after you had an exciting experience together.
The feelings of guilt
Sometimes your mind will trick you into thinking that you love someone just to make you help him to solve his problems.
This happens when you feel sorry about someone. Due to making mistakes and hurting others, we all have accumulated the feelings of guilt about what we have done and one of the strongest desire we have is getting rid of those feelings that make us suffer.
Subconscious mind tend to lead us to help anyone who resembles the people we have hurt by making us feel sorry about them.
These feelings sometimes can make us really love the person we feel sorry for without being aware of what is happening. However sometimes this is just a big lie that stands in our mind without understanding what it really is, so we think it is true love.
Some people have inflated ego and they might go to extreme behaviors just to protect their ego. Billionaires and the most successful people of the world are the best examples of extreme egoism.
But egoism is reflected in daily relationships of many other people too. If others think that you are not so worthy to be in a relationship with your partner, they might hurt your ego seriously.
Because of this you judge your value with the ability to keep your partner with you forever and if you won’t be able to do so your ego will seriously suffer.
Such egoist people become very stubborn and they might fight very hard to keep their relationship going even if they don’t really love their partners. But the worst thing about this is that they mistakenly think that they are really in love.
Beautyful memories can make someone very obsessed with their partner after they are no longer together. Nostalgic feelings can prevent people to forget the person who they broke up and to go on with their lives.
This scenario might happen even when people break up with partners they really hate, because their obsession will program their minds to believe they lost the only person who could make them happy. Of course this is not true, but just an illusion.
The best thing to do at these cases is to forget great memories and never feel nostalgic about them again. This will turn the brain into normality again and people can feel the reality which of course is far from what they believed it is before.
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